Showing posts with label relationship management. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship management. Show all posts

Saturday, 31 May 2014

How your man cooks says a lot about him



How your man whips up a meal says a lot about his personality



The mix and matcher 

These men are concerned with nutrition, but also enjoy the convenience of packaged foods. They look for opportunities to achieve both goals, often adding their own special touch (like seasoning or additional ingredient) to the packaged item. They happily follow directions, feeling relief at not having to figure the whole meal out by themselves. The idea for the meal possibly came from a magazine or advertisement because this type of person likes to have a framework in place. So, playing hard to get with a person like him is likely to backfire.

The barbecue expert 

Men who like to barbecue their meals tend to be masculine and usually ascribe to the 'bigger the better' school of cooking and philosophies in life. It's all about taste with hearty marinades and rich sauces. This chef knows what he's doing. From preparing the grill to determining cooking times, it's all instinct and meant to impress. Though the Grill Master likes to be in control, underneath the tough exterior can be a tender ego that responds well to praise.


The unusual foodie

This type is all about trying new things, whether in the kitchen or anywhere else for that matter. He is up on the latest trends and must-try ingredients. They tend to be extroverts and look to experts for guidance. This guy will be focused on the meal and have great reverence for the ingredients being used. Foodies love to share their discoveries, and your appreciation will show that your sense of wonder is intact — a turn on for them.

The fancy free 

Does he let inspiration dictate his menu? People who regularly cook without recipe books in front of them tend to be creative thinkers. When determining ingredients, seasoning, time and temperature, they turn to personal thoughts, experiences and feelings. This chef holds an image in mind of the finished dish, and uses that as guidance for to what to do next. These are attributes of creative types who tend to be sensitive to their surroundings.


The easy gourmet 

This guy is not interested in complicated directions. A few simple guidelines are all he needs. Convenience is key. Some may start a dish in the wave and finish it by another method. Microwaves are fast and food can often be cooked in the same vessel it is served in, saving valuable clear-up time. They are super fussy, too.

The devout vegetarian 

Vegetarian men tend to be compassionate. They are concerned with health, the environment, and humane treatment of animals. They are willing to spend extra time in the kitchen for the benefits of lower fat intake. So brush up on your environmental awareness so you can make good dinner conversation. Vegetarians like to be around people who share their values. So, don't try to fake it. Nobody likes to be patronized.

The nurturer 

These chefs are all about taking care of their guests and like to prepare comfort food. Dishes will often be prepared from memory, or using a recipe written on a piece of paper that is many years old. While the ingredients used may not be as health conscious as today's consumer trends, there will be an incredible amount of love poured into this meal. But be sure and tell them how nice it is to have them cook for you. They can't hear it enough. The more you soak up the experience, the more the nurturer will ladle it on.


The health freak 

This fellow is focused on health and weight control in particular. There may be some insecurity issues going on or doubts about self image, as well as some need to control what they put in a recipe in order for them to enjoy the meal without guilt. This chef will go extra mile in the kitchen to meet goals — precise measuring of ingredients, dietary points tallied and controlled servings. He needs to feel in control.

Happy explorer 

This guy likes to go off the beaten track. Ethnic foods offer intrigue, mysterious flavors. He is likely to be open-minded and see the world as one big community. The chef will follow a recipe and may interpret a dish with what he has on hand. He isn't afraid to experiment, grow and learn. This is a person who is willing to step out of his comfort zone, palate and otherwise. He is ready for spontaneity, whether it's picking a to watch or planning a last-minute weekend away.


Saturday, 24 May 2014

4 things to do when you are bored in your relationship

Do you think your relationship has become extremely boring? Here are certain things you can do. 


Remember why you fell in love: 

One of the best ways to invoke love back into your relationship is by reminding yourself why you fell in love in the first place. You may have various things like going out with your friends over weekends, work etc to keep you busy, yet when you ponder what is it that made you fall in love with this person; you will soon feel the butterflies in your stomach once again! 

Do things together: 

There is nothing better than doing activities together that will reignite the fire in your relationship again. This way you will also spend quality time together and will get ample amount of time to focus on each other and on your relationship as well. Thus, setting one day in the week to either do home chores together or an activity together will strengthen your relationship for a long time. 


Look for innovative ways to have fun: 

Other than doing activities together, you can look out for ways the two of you can spend time together. This can be anything from going out for a bicycle ride during the weekends and exploring nearby areas or hiking to some destination. 

Focus on yourself as well: 

Other than spending time with each other, you should also look at spending some time with yourself. This will ease your mind and help you think clearly and also figure out ways the two of you can bond. Space is extremely important in a relationship and doing things on your own at times broadens your mind.